I have been, for all of my life, on the fence about motherhood. So when I became pregnant (Bee was a bit of a surprise), I met the positive sign with fear/anxiety/worry, and Ken offered the celebratory smile I needed in that moment. (What good, wise husbands we have.) And every moment since has been an exercise in growing our hearts, in learning to love, in committing to each other over and over again.
In the hard times, I remind myself that loving any human (whether that someone shares my DNA, spills syrup on my counter, trails mud throughout my floors) is a choice, an exercise, a practice – the hardest and most wonderful thing that I’ll get wrong and right and wrong again.
You’ve already got it right, friend. It’s going to be a lovely ride.
Hugs,
e.
Winnie is starting to catch on!! Thanks, Savannah 🙂
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]]>That is great to hear. I really appreciate your honesty… Glad to know accepting the array of human emotion as part of motherhood will help in the future. THANKYOU!!
]]>Danica– thank you so much for sharing!! It is so helpful to hear from other mothers who felt this way. I’m nervous about the first three months… I was a pretty difficult baby and when I think about Joe and my temperament… I think we’re in for a wild ride. Your story made me feel better 🙂 Thank you!!
]]>Thank you so much, Ashley!!
]]>Yes!! Congrats to you!! I have been enjoying following your pregnancy– you look great!! Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well… Here we come 3rd trimester!
]]>Thank you so much for sharing Emilie. Your story really stuck a cord with me. The first thing I thought when I found out I was pregnant was “what am I going to do about my ADHD?” Because without treatment depression and anxiety made daily life really difficult. Luckily it’s been a somewhat smooth road, and I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. These hormones are no joke. I hope you are feeling better and I appreciate your honesty. Take care of yourself and that babe!
]]>Thanks for your sweet note, Jacqui! It means a lot to take this journey with readers who I have a history with. It is amazing how much we change and evolve over time. Looking forward to this new challenge and all it’s rewards 🙂
]]>Thanks Kasey 🙂 I hope so!!
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