Kolina Cicero | Wit & Delight | Designing a Life Well-Lived https://witanddelight.com/author/kolina_cicero/ A Lifestyle Blog Sat, 30 Mar 2024 21:14:11 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 The Guilt of Feeling Happy and Mantras to Find Your Joy https://witanddelight.com/2022/12/happiness-guilt-joy-mantras/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/12/happiness-guilt-joy-mantras/#comments Fri, 16 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=103491 Happiness guilt is a very real thing, but it doesn't have to be the defining part of your emotional state. Here's one approach to letting it go.

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More Than Hygge: The Wintering We All Need Right Now https://witanddelight.com/2022/11/hygge-wintering-we-all-need/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/11/hygge-wintering-we-all-need/#comments Mon, 28 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=86320 We're sharing the outlook of wintering that's helping us not only get through but also enjoy the winter months this year.

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6 Meaningful, Captivating Books to Gift This Holiday Season https://witanddelight.com/2022/11/books-to-gift/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/11/books-to-gift/#comments Fri, 18 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=102963 If you don’t know what books to gift this holiday season, or to whom, I’ve got you covered. These are 6 of my *favorite* books to gift.

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The Benefits I’ve Noticed From Tracking My Habits for 3 Years https://witanddelight.com/2022/09/tracking-my-habits-benefits/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/09/tracking-my-habits-benefits/#comments Fri, 23 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=101894 I've been tracking my habits for three years now. I'm sharing the benefits I've noticed from the practice and how you can do it too.

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3 Meaningful Ways to Practice Self-Care as an Introvert https://witanddelight.com/2022/09/self-care-for-introverts/ Tue, 13 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=101724 Self-care for introverts might look a little different than it does for our extroverted friends. Here are 3 self-care practices worth trying.

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The Benefits of Anxiety and Why It Might Actually Be Your Superpower https://witanddelight.com/2022/07/benefits-of-anxiety/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/07/benefits-of-anxiety/#comments Tue, 12 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=100447 Let's look at anxiety a little differently. These are some of the benefits of anxiety, and why, in some ways, it might be your superpower.

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4 Practical Suggestions to Help You Get Unstuck https://witanddelight.com/2022/04/get-unstuck/ Tue, 26 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=97483 Here are four effective suggestions to help you get unstuck and keep moving forward, no matter what life throws at you.

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Treat Your Mind Like Your Home: On Being Proactive About Your Mental Health https://witanddelight.com/2022/03/proactive-mental-health/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/03/proactive-mental-health/#comments Mon, 28 Mar 2022 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=97096 Our minds often receive less priority than our physical spaces. Here's a nudge to be proactive about caring for your mental health.

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How to Make Time for Reading, No Matter How Busy You Are https://witanddelight.com/2022/03/make-time-for-reading/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/03/make-time-for-reading/#comments Thu, 17 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=96686 Want to make time to read more? It's possible, no matter how busy you are. Here are 6 simple tips to help you do it.

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How Habit Tracking Changed My Life https://witanddelight.com/2022/02/habit-tracking/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/02/habit-tracking/#comments Tue, 22 Feb 2022 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=96414 Habit tracking has the power to change your life. Here's exactly how you can incorporate this practice into your own routine.

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How to Support a Friend Who’s Going Through a Rough Patch https://witanddelight.com/2022/02/rough-patch-how-to-support-a-friend/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/02/rough-patch-how-to-support-a-friend/#comments Wed, 16 Feb 2022 14:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=96163 While we may not be able to change what they're going through, there are things we can do to support a friend when they're in a rough patch.

Here are a couple of ideas.

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I Love You, but I Choose Me: On Parenting and Prioritizing Yourself https://witanddelight.com/2022/01/i-love-you-but-i-choose-me-on-parenting-and-prioritizing-yourself/ https://witanddelight.com/2022/01/i-love-you-but-i-choose-me-on-parenting-and-prioritizing-yourself/#comments Fri, 14 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=95518 Contributor Kolina Cicero is writing about why (and how) she prioritizes herself, even in the midst of the many demands that come along with parenting.

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The Perennial Nature of the Relationships That Matter https://witanddelight.com/2021/12/the-perennial-nature-of-the-relationships-that-matter/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/12/the-perennial-nature-of-the-relationships-that-matter/#comments Tue, 21 Dec 2021 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=94990 Today's article explores the nature of the relationships that matter and what sets them apart from the relationships we need to leave behind.

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The Mystifying Feeling of Pre-Nostalgia https://witanddelight.com/2021/11/the-mystifying-feeling-of-pre-nostalgia/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/11/the-mystifying-feeling-of-pre-nostalgia/#comments Tue, 16 Nov 2021 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=94169 Today's article explores the wistful yet beautiful idea of pre-nostalgia—that ethereal feeling of missing something before it’s gone.

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A Book Recommendation for Every Mood This Fall https://witanddelight.com/2021/09/a-book-recommendation-for-every-mood-this-fall/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/09/a-book-recommendation-for-every-mood-this-fall/#comments Wed, 29 Sep 2021 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=93299 Everything about fall invites us to cozy up with a good book. Today, we're sharing a book recommendation for every mood this season.

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5 Books to Get Lost in This Summer https://witanddelight.com/2021/06/5-books-to-get-lost-in-this-summer/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/06/5-books-to-get-lost-in-this-summer/#comments Tue, 15 Jun 2021 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=89982 This list is every book that took writer Kolina Cicero in to such a degree that she was lost, engrossed, smitten. Our hope is that these books do the same for you.

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The Incredible Transformation That Happens When You Decide You Are Enough https://witanddelight.com/2021/04/the-incredible-transformation-that-happens-when-you-decide-you-are-enough/ Tue, 13 Apr 2021 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=88816 Kolina Cicero is exploring what happens when we're able to let go of outside expectations and pressures and learn to believe we are enough.

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How to Batch Your Work, Be More Successful, and Liberate Your Leisure Mind https://witanddelight.com/2021/02/how-to-batch-your-work-be-more-successful-and-liberate-your-leisure-mind/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/02/how-to-batch-your-work-be-more-successful-and-liberate-your-leisure-mind/#comments Sun, 07 Feb 2021 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=87266 Today we're walking through the process of batching your work—how it can help you be more productive and successful, and have more leisure time to boot.

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Perfectionism, Identity, and the Optics of Worthiness https://witanddelight.com/2021/01/perfectionism-identity-and-the-optics-of-worthiness/ https://witanddelight.com/2021/01/perfectionism-identity-and-the-optics-of-worthiness/#comments Mon, 18 Jan 2021 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=86753 "Perfectionism is a geranium. Its optics are gorgeous, illuminated by a halo of grit, strength, and flawlessness. But perfectionism can be a fault. . . . Perfectionism often prevents those who bear its weight from starting something new, from even trying."

Kolina Cicero is exploring what is means to be the opposite of a perfectionist, in a world that demands excellence at every turn.

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Helpful Things You Can Do When You’re Feeling Anxious https://witanddelight.com/2020/12/helpful-things-you-can-do-when-youre-feeling-anxious/ https://witanddelight.com/2020/12/helpful-things-you-can-do-when-youre-feeling-anxious/#comments Thu, 10 Dec 2020 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=86065 "Anxiety is a snowflake. Everyone’s brand is different from everybody else’s, even if the side effects are, in many ways, the same. And right now, it’s snowing all over the world."

Today contributor Kolina Cicero is sharing 8 genuinely helpful tools to turn to when you're feeling anxious, because you don't have to go through it alone.

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Why We Should Celebrate Our Unique Qualities https://witanddelight.com/2020/11/why-we-should-celebrate-our-unique-qualities/ https://witanddelight.com/2020/11/why-we-should-celebrate-our-unique-qualities/#comments Tue, 03 Nov 2020 16:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=85152 "Why, then, do we yearn for connection over similarities when the real value is in connecting with those from whom we can learn something? . . . The real interest and intrigue show up when we identify and honor the unique qualities each of us possesses."

Contributor Kolina Cicero is exploring why seeking out and celebrating each of our unique qualities can make our lives more balanced, interesting, and vibrant.

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6 Books to Read When You Need a Mood Lift https://witanddelight.com/2020/06/6-books-to-read-when-you-need-a-mood-lift/ https://witanddelight.com/2020/06/6-books-to-read-when-you-need-a-mood-lift/#comments Mon, 15 Jun 2020 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=56308 "Through books, you can visit new places, learn new things, and even get into bed with new people . . . Reading, to me, is one of life’s greatest adventures."

Contributor Kolina Cicero put together a list of books perfect for the summer months (and any time of year really).

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5 Ways to Care for Your Mind Right Now https://witanddelight.com/2020/05/5-ways-to-care-for-your-mind-right-now/ Fri, 08 May 2020 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=55516 Even with all of the current unknowns, there are still ways we can care for our minds right now. Kolina Cicero is sharing 5 of them on W&D today.

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Why All Moms Feel Guilty and How We Can Be Kinder to Ourselves https://witanddelight.com/2020/04/why-all-moms-feel-guilty-and-how-we-can-be-kinder-to-ourselves/ https://witanddelight.com/2020/04/why-all-moms-feel-guilty-and-how-we-can-be-kinder-to-ourselves/#comments Tue, 07 Apr 2020 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=54716 Contributor Kolina Cicero is exploring the societal, biological, and internal standards that lead us all to feel guilty as mothers, and how we can learn to be kinder to ourselves.

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I Asked 10 People What They’re Most Grateful for and This Is What They Said https://witanddelight.com/2019/11/i-asked-10-people-what-theyre-most-grateful-for-and-this-is-what-they-said/ https://witanddelight.com/2019/11/i-asked-10-people-what-theyre-most-grateful-for-and-this-is-what-they-said/#comments Sat, 02 Nov 2019 15:00:55 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=48089 "While collecting others’ gratitude lists, I found my own has grown substantially. A remarkable thing happens when you ask people what they’re grateful for and they are able to share such touching responses. Gratitude for having 82 days full of the most hugs, kisses, and storytelling mom and daughter have ever shared. Gratitude for community, for another day, for a functioning body and health and estrogen."

Contributor Kolina Cicero spoke with 10 people to find out what they're most grateful for right now. Their answers are heartbreaking and beautiful and touching all at once. In one word? They're human. We hope you'll give this post a read.

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Before You Were A Parent, You Were You https://witanddelight.com/2019/09/pre-parenting/ https://witanddelight.com/2019/09/pre-parenting/#comments Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=45931 "We need to rediscover the other because we are our children’s role models. If we want to help them cultivate a confident sense of personal identity, we had better do the same for ourselves." Today contributor Kolina Cicero is writing about finding yourself again—the person you were before a tiny human was introduced into your life—after becoming a parent.

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It’s Not What They Remember but Who They Become: The Case for Traveling with Children https://witanddelight.com/2019/08/travel-with-children/ https://witanddelight.com/2019/08/travel-with-children/#comments Sat, 03 Aug 2019 15:00:00 +0000 https://witanddelight.com/?p=43295 "The importance isn't how far you go, but how different life is in your destination. By bringing the unfamiliar into the sphere of your children's familiar, you're expanding their horizons and challenging their comfort zones." Today contributor Kolina Cicero is writing about the importance of traveling with your children.

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